By Rori Raye
I spent many sad years vying for a man’s interest, time, and attention.
It was awful. I’d knock myself out trying to catch a particular man’s eye; and then, if he paid attention to me, I would suddenly feel in complete fear of losing him. So I’d frantically try to keep this from happening by checking up on him, doing things for him, trying to change myself for him – anything to keep me from losing him.
And you know what happened? That’s right – I’d lose him anyway!
It took a lot of pain and tears to convince myself I’d had enough. SOMETHING needed to change – and it was me.
I was the one common denominator throughout all my relationship mishaps, so I finally understood that I was never going to have the happily-ever-after I wanted if I didn’t do something about it.
And, when I did, that’s when my husband finally appeared. That’s when he won me over, swept me off my feet, and created a marriage that is still going strong after more than two decades – a marriage that includes our beautiful daughter. And it was all because of a single, simple shift I made that I detail in my program Modern Siren.
Let’s go into what makes up this shift.
We’ve all bent over backwards to get a man’s attention and keep it there. But it DOESN’T work. That’s because a man doesn’t fall in love by how much you give him or do for him – he falls in love because of how much he does for YOU.
A man wants to please you not just because it makes you happy, but because he feels like he can CONTRIBUTE to your life in a positive way. Men need this, and if you’re the one who is always doing, then guess what? You’re doing the man’s job. And it turns him off. Which brings me to…
There’s something very important you need to understand if you want to feel completely adored in a relationship. Men are drawn to us because of our feminine, feeling nature. Men THRIVE on this – it’s how we complement his doing, masculine nature. When you are being your natural, alluring, feminine self, he feels inspired to shower you with love and devotion.
But this is not what we let ourselves be – especially not if we’re used to being independent, go-getters in the rest of our lives. Being in your masculine – or boy – energy works wonders in your career. But NOT in your love life.
A man will never fall in love with you if you are not sharing your feminine self with him. What does this mean? It means it’s time to let the womanly, feminine, feeling, sensuous being that you are come out and play!
And this is what’s at the core of my program Modern Siren. A Modern Siren is a woman fully in touch with her feminine self – so in touch, that men literally fall over themselves to be with her.
A Modern Siren never feels anxiety that she’s not doing enough to win a man’s attention and commitment, because he never lets her forget how adored she is.
The great news is that you’re already a Modern Siren. It’s only a matter of bringing her to the surface so that you can finally enjoy the secure, passionate relationship you’ve always wanted. Let me show you, step by step, how to unleash your own inner Modern Siren…